Signs a woman is interested in you are the physical things a woman does when she is around you to show you that she really have feelings for you and you can’t get rejected by her when you approach her. Knowing if a woman is really interested in you isn’t that easy for most men as they are scared of not being rejected. I can assure you being rejected really suck and could make one have a bad day while it keeps ringing in your head.
Why not take your time and study her overall behavior to be certain that she is actually interested in you and then hit your target? Most guys tend to abscond from appreciating the feeling of attraction created as it unfolds gradually. Recognizing these signs a woman is interested in you will make you feel happy, confident, and comfortable about meeting new friends.
Proven signs a woman is interested in you
Not sure if she is showing you the green light? Well, if you are curious to know these signs a woman is interested in you then look no further as you have the golden keys below:
Nature of her body language
Reading her body language isn’t that easy as most girls might still fake their body language just to make fun of the guy. You could see her facing you then she is more likely to be interested in you. But the more she is getting away from you, the more she has her mind fixed elsewhere and you shouldn’t bother approaching her to avoid being turned down.
You tend to notice her licking her lips while talking with you and might even touch you while she talks are one of the surest signs a woman is interested in you immensely. Others might be touching or playing with their hairs, sitting towards you is a clear sign she wants you not that her hair is itching her.
She tells you things about herself
When you see a woman revealing things about her personal life to you like her dad has 2 wives, or she had a bad breakup are all clear signs she is interested in you. If she doesn’t have feelings for you and also trust you, she won’t share her private lives with you. When you see her act like that, then it is a clear sign that she wants to build a strong connection with you.
No person will like to share his or her secrets to someone he or she has no interest in. Never have you taken her for granted because she confided in you, she did that because she wants to let you in.
She wants open space with you
If a woman is interested in a man, she will prefer nothing stands in between you and her according to Vanessa Van Edwards, author of Modern Day Dale Carnegie. Others may try hiding by holding a purse between the two of you. If you discover she turned toward you, with her purse by her side is clear green light. But if you notice a woman holding firm to her purse doesn’t actually mean you want to snatch her purse as it’s a clear sign she is not interested in you.
Furthermore, you went on a date with a woman and she is less interested in shielding you out than looking out for her purse not to be stolen. Never feel infuriated what she is doing with her purse, but do watch out for her purse position to help you detect vividly the rest of her body language.
Trying to mimic you
This is one of those clear signs a woman is interested in you as she mimics virtually everything you do while on a date with her. If you do clear your throat during a conversation, she probably does the same or you lick your lips after sipping the wine and she does exactly the same then it is known as interactional symmetry.
This is definitely due to the attraction she has for you and pays close attention to her body language and the choice of words she uses.
Always wanting to linger around you
You can see a woman if she is interested in the guy, anywhere the guy goes to be it a night club or a lounge she is always there. She just wants to draw your attention towards her and to enable you to approach her is one of those signs a woman is interested in you. When you discover this particular sign then you are good to go.
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She finds it difficult to speaking properly
I actually love this particular tip because it helps me get my dream woman as we went on a date; she probably couldn’t look at my face and left alone when I ask her some little questions she fumbles. She tends to stutter and I quickly help her out by telling her I love her modest way of answering my questions, just to cut her some slack.
I’m not saying she couldn’t stare at my face because am handsome but she was nervous and I tend to interpret her body language that she is interested in me and I then aim for the stars. Today we both are two love birds flying and never wanting to perch. Isn’t that great? You too can get your dream woman using this method or any of the above listed.
She invites you out
Never think she is too cheap for inviting you to come to the cinema with her to watch the Avengers, or that there is a music show coming up next week and she wants you to come with her. It is because she has feelings for you and that’s why she invites you out. All these are clear signs a woman is interested in you and if she doesn’t have that feeling for you, she can never ask you to accompany her to the cinema.
Always wanting to be closer to you
No woman will want you to touch her not to talk of her holding your hands if she is not into you. A girl that is actually interested in you will find every means possible to have her hands on you be it when she sits close beside you or when you are saying a joke. She will laugh and even touch your arm while you think it is as a result of the joke you said not knowing that she is showing you the green light to approach her.
This is one of those signs that a woman is interested in you and you shouldn’t take this sign for granted.
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She always laughs with you
Any time you say something that shouldn’t warrant someone tearing one’s hair out but she stills laugh is a clear sign she is into you. She is definitely showing you that she cherishes your company and amusing quality. Although you might be funny naturally it’s also one of those signs a woman is interested in you.
Trying to seek your attention
This particular sign is common amongst most girls who are attracted to a particular guy as they tend to walk and swing their hips to be noticed by the guy. I hang out with my baby in a restaurant just to see a lady walk past our table swinging her hips and my baby immediately look at me to see if I’m staring at the lady but I was engrossed with my fisherman stew. My baby then whispered “that walk was all about you” and I hope you won’t fall for her and I laughed.
Some women may even try seeking your attention by making sure their voice supersedes all of her friends in order to get your attention which you have to pay rapt attention to this sign if you want to get your dream woman.
Always having eye contact with you
This is one of those signs a woman is interested in you but it’s unfortunate that most men tend to neglect this sign and end up being rejected by their dream woman. Eye contact is a popular sign used when one is being attracted to a particular person. We see people exhibit copulatory gaze that is they tend to look closely into the eye of the person they’re interested in for a minimum of three seconds as his or her pupils would become wider or enlarged.
Most girls tend to use eye contact in sending a message to the guy that she is not interested in him. If you are talking to her and she is looking you with a bad eye is a sign that you should look elsewhere than flogging a dead horse. But if you notice her looking at you when you are not staring at her or she looks at every movement you do, is a clear sign she is attracted to you.
A girl that is attracted to you might blush and it is usually because attraction makes her body temperature to rise while some may be due to the stress of being interested in a guy. There is no way she can fake attraction to you by blushing as she does it unintentionally. You may even say some things that might stress her out or embarrass her but she still blushes on you that is to show you that she is really attracted to you.
Always making low-key conversation
She may try as much as possible to begin a conversation in a low-key way so as to avoid being neglected by you. Maybe you two are on a date and she says something that looks like she is talking to herself, never think otherwise but try chipping in the conversation and set the ball rolling to your direction.
You have to be careful with this particular sign because not all girls that invite a low-key conversation means they’re interested in you as others might not want you to feel bad on approaching them and may accord you respect at that moment.
She changes the way she usually talks
This particular sign is common to both men and women as they tend to alter the tone and pitch of their voices when speaking to the person they are interested in according to the Journal of Nonverbal Communication.
These researchers make us understand that when you are attracted to someone, your vocal tone changes gradually and sometimes you tend to breathe shallowly or your heart rates beat faster are all signs a woman is interested in you.
You might be worried why her voice fades gradually while talking with you either on phone or face to face as she is not doing it intentionally for you. She is probably being attracted to you and that is why such changes occur.
It was also deduced from the research that voices speaking to an attractive partner were more attractive to listeners. Why don’t you lower the tone of your voice when you notice you are interested in that person and have your dream partner?
She is always checking you out
This sign is easy to notice as she might be gazing at you from head to toe. She might get hold of your hands and even squeeze them while talking with you; might even behold those muscles underneath that cute shirt and fall in love with it are all signs that a girl is attracted to you. When you notice this sign happens frequently, never delay and strike immediately.
Always striving to know everything about you
You might be thinking this particular sign is out of context but I can assure you it works in a blinking of an eye. She might decide to ask where you attended your college. How many siblings do you have? Where do you reside? What do you do for a living? She is inquisitive in knowing your entire background.
Why? Because she is attracted to you and definitely wants to know the kind of person you are. When you experience this sign, then you are just a stone throw from being accepted by your dream woman.
She focuses on you
You might not be the first person that has walked up to her, as others have approached her and she turns them down. Her heart is fixed on you and that’s why she tends to let go other guys to be in your company isn’t a magic but a sign she is interested in you so deeply. So don’t throw away your golden opportunity by paying close attention to this particular sign.
Imbibing low-key stalking
It sounds funny, right? Yes, you are right because, by the time you introduce yourself to the girl, she already found you on any of your social media accounts. You shouldn’t get upset as she only wants to make sure you are not a bad person. Some girls might even know virtually all your social media accounts by your first name or nickname after a one-night stand/on a first date.
She saves her energy for you
You guys might be discussing but she doesn’t seem to slow down and she is really engrossed in the conversation. When a girl shows energy in a conversation with you, is also one of those signs that she is attracted to you as an individual’s energy level is usually associated with their interest level. Energy may be taken into consideration if she is putting it into the two of you.
Consequently, this same sign is applicable to guys as they tend to be witty when talking with pretty girls as they are never tired of talking but as soon as the girls leave to use the restroom, they feel bored and slump. But as soon as the girls return they feel energized and continue talking as if all their energy was conserved for the pretty girls.
Always asking you to keep off from a particular girl
Women are possessive, so once they have that feeling for you, they will do whatever they can to keep you attracted to them and is a common trick they use subconsciously which works for them. Some might even walk up to you and ask you to keep off from a particular girl.
You tend to ask her why? She tells you she doesn’t trust the girl or the girl is beneath your standard. Ironically, she is saying she is interested in you and that she could make a good match for you.
Furthermore, don’t just bump into her for telling you that the girl is untrustworthy and take her advice diligently by so doing you’ll know if actually, the particular girl isn’t good for you.
She allows you to be dominant while accepting to be submissive
When a girl gives you dominance and control over a particular thing, she could be interested in you. She will let you decide where to go on a date, what to eat and drink. Some girls offer to make you feel comforted on a date while others might even offer to pay the bills as all these are signs that she is being attracted to you.
Most women are attracted to dominant confident men as they can’t control their feelings since it occurs naturally.
She tends to talk to you differently
You can decide to ask a girl if she has a serious date and she tells you “no”. Then her friend chips in saying “what about Akpan? Isn’t he a boyfriend? She refuses to answer and just snub her friend. You might be thinking if she is just trying to pull your legs or the question is a little bit intimate and she doesn’t want to discuss such issue with a stranger.
All these are clear signs that she is interested in you immensely.
She gives funny excuses for reaching you
For instance, you might be fast asleep and a call comes in late at night. Guess who is on the line, the girl you went on a date with last night and she will quickly give you an excuse for contacting you at this time of the night pointing that she missed your call which you knew very well you didn’t call her.
You tend to imagine that the excuse she said makes no sense at all as she is just looking for means to reach out to you. This is also a clear sign she is attracted to you and go ahead and approach her.
Finally opens up to you
This tip is simple as she will just walk up to you and tell you she admires you as you might think she is insane. She isn’t insane as she just called a spade a spade by telling you she is all yours that you need not look further. The ball is now in your court as you can score as many goals you like since she has finally revealed to you that she is crushing on you.
Other signs you can watch out for to know if she is attracted to you includes she touching you as she walked past you claiming she isn’t aware of it and she experiencing some physiological changes like her lips becoming reddish and even more pronounced and her pupils dilating on staring at your face.
Now that you have been familiar with all the signs a woman is interested in you, you just have to diligently keep a close watch for these signs so you don’t end up being rejected by a woman.